My dad has practically disowned me and hasn’t spoken to me in six years.

My father-in-law is just happy his daughter married an accountant with a nice car." 11.

"Usually only happens if we are just standing next to each other and not really talking.

Rudo Banya says she's never been attracted to black men. She thinks it's partly because her aunties used to tell her how "rubbish" black men were and told her to "make better choices".

Rudo says itis not racist to be attracted to one race over another, it's just a preference.

When you’re surprised by who accepts you as a couple and who doesn’t.

A white woman married to a South-Asian woman, Reddit user breakingupishard22, says, "The only thing that’s ever stood out to me is that people are always surprised that her Muslim parents are cooler with us than my white atheist parents.

’ This is way worse than the people who ask things like ’does he speak much English?

’ when he’s lived in Canada longer than they’ve been alive." 5.

He also added, "I was stopped by the police before and the cop actually pulled me out of the car and asked me if she was a prostitute and would not believe me until I showed our wedding photo that’s in my wallet." 12.

When you learn that your relationship is so much more than what anyone else thinks.

She says he told her, "’You don’t have to squint, it’s not that dark in here.’ This was meant as a joke and I took it as such since there was not malicious intent, just ignorant joking. The most surprising was how tactless some people are. ’ just sounds so rude and I hear it way too damn often," says Reddit user Catherine Am.