It doesn’t become illegal for you to date your boyfriend when he turns 16.

16 dating a 13 year old-31

Sex should be something that both people in the relationship decide they want when it is the right time.

No one should pressure you or force you to have sex or do anything sexual.

So my question is: am I allowed to date a boy at the age of 16 if I'm 14???

Hi there, There can be a lot of confusion about what’s okay when it comes to age differences in relationships.

For some it doesn’t involve anything sexual, whereas for others it might be a big part of going out with someone.

What’s important is being clear and open with your partner about what you want from your relationship and what you don’t want.

But both people in the relationship are entitled to their views and feelings. Things aren’t going to magically change for your relationship the day your partner turns 16 – they’ll be very much the same as the way they were the day before.

If you’re coping with the difference in age now, then that difference should still be the same when you are 14 and 16.

Of course, i am more or less afraid of what her parents will think about it. I would wait until she's 14 and then let her get her parent's permission.