And it seems they’re far from unique, with increasing numbers of married couples finding themselves in a situation where they’re living as if they are divorced – but just haven’t realised it yet.In recent months, much speculation has been made over the amount of time Tony and Cherie Blair have spent together.

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With her arranging the family’s move to their new Chilterns mansion and him lecturing across the globe, the couple’s frenetic schedules mean they have had little time together.

‘They hardly ever see each other and have become like ships passing in the night,’ said a friend. While some couples in difficulties battle to improve their relationship and others walk away, de facto divorcés drift along, leading parallel lives.

When it comes to online dating, I can be a judgmental jerk-face. The other plus was that I couldn’t see how many people I’d liked.

I got a notification each time one of those people also liked me, but I couldn’t scroll through the users who hadn’t responded and wonder where I went wrong (like I tend to with unanswered Ok Cupid messages).

According to Her’s study, there are six ways for users to get more likes, more messages, and more dates while using their app. "Of all the times of the week this is the absolute peak, with not only the highest number of new signups but also the greatest number of likes being dished out.

As a new user you are 20% more likely to get a Like and 15% more likely to get a message." You sign up for Her through Facebook or Instagram.I had already been messaging non-binary people, so it didn’t change how I was using the app.The study found that, "after 44 messages you are most likely to get a positive response when you go for the digits." Because users are relying mostly on photos (although there is an option to include small text boxes on your profile) to get a sense of who they want to message, users go into each interaction without a lot of information. I’m terrible at dating in general, but my go-to online dating move is to get a message from someone cute, and never ever respond. So, when Robyn Exton, the CEO at Her (stylized as HER), a dating app centered on lesbian, bi, and queer women, asked me if I was interested in their latest study on the best hacks for their app, a small, scathing, and very single voice inside me hissed, "You need this." The PR photos didn’t hurt.Who wouldn’t want to be in that pile of cute women?He no longer notices if you’re wearing a new dress; you forget to ask about his important presentation.